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Your Online Dating Profile: Do’s And Don’ts For Women
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Online Internet Dating Advice: Do’s And Don’ts For Women | The Mirror of Aphrodite
Avoid writing a profile that focus on only one thing: Sensuous and sexually passionate, I am an experienced lover looking for a woman to share special experiences or that special sexual soulmate. Sensuous woman who wants to explore her sexuality in various ways. Type, build, looks unimportant, but that inner passion and wantonness is.
I am a lonely guy longing to meet and pleasure lovely ladies. I know how to please a woman and invite all lonely…. Using these lines from bad online dating profiles will lead to plenty of one-night-stands, but a qaulity, long-term connection needs a stronger start. This should be at least 20 words long. Maximum length is about words characters. Remember that you may not include any contact details in your profile.
If you do, the contact information…. This person is not worth your time. Can you imagine how little energy this person will spend on you or your relationship if writing a profile is just too much to do? Do a spell-check before you post your new profile! Careful what you wish for Vivian, LOL ;-. She even called him buddy. Now I am not so sure. I just found out - at the beginning of March, she posted on her blog about her new fitness program and how she excitedly told her "beau" about it And under the question - "If you were in a serious relationship, would you mind if your significant other maintained an active profile on OkCupid?
How do I stop this mad obsession over him? Can you slap me, please? I could find a way to ask the girl about it, actually. We do have 3 mutual friends Starting to wonder if I just like stirring up drama for no goddamn reason. Vivian, LOL, maybe you should poke around and just put this to rest once and for all if you think finding out the truth will do that.
I simply love it! I hope that you could help me with my little dilemma. I met a nice man online we went out 2 times talked a lot, felt the connection. Then I texted him 2 times during the week to see how he was? I initiated contact only because he said he was sick but beside that as he told me to be friends for a moment I guess I did not violate any rules. What should I do or not do ; to make him more interested in order to start a serious relation?
Mar 29, 8: Which means, no pursuit, no initiation. Read this piece, written by a man: Not unless you intend to only ever be friends with the man and nothing more.
Which is why you need to let a man pursue you. She was definitely NOT impressed. She asked me, "Did he take you out and make you feel special? Did he call you often? Did he try to get to know you? Did he fly to see you, or even consider it? Will he love, care, and support you? Chasing the truth will just be more investment of my time, binding me deeper to him. There is a man out there who is looking for someone like me Do you think they are only ignorant or do you view this as rudeness?
And how should a woman answer or should she write them off right away? Thank you for your reply. In the past I was in the same boat. Unlike you - at least so far - I revived the relationship with HIM after 2 years or so. Mirror is right, move on without regrets and maybe like in my case life will show you later that there is nothing to regret after all.
Anonymous March 30, 6: Was he also involved with another woman, and then you left? Why did you revive the relationship?
Were you interested during those 2 years, and when you did revive it, was he still interested? How did it lead nowhere? Over the weekend, I felt an internal shift, that I was ready to give up not being with him ever again A day later, he followed suit and took down his! Did he do it to mirror me? I can only shake my head Insecure men make for crappy boyfriends, lovers and husbands.
They need lots of female attention as you can see to feel like men, they need the upper hand with women, they like to play emotional head games with women to feel in control and they cheat on women as you can see due to the fact that they feel so inferior deep down inside as men, that it generally takes more than one women or two to make them feel like men.
He reminds me of a "gentleman player" - which I will be discussing in an upcoming article here soon. In the meantime, listen to this video, watch it closely and what this man is attempting to portray here in it.
Vivian Of course, I can share my story if you are interested. I sat by the phone and waited for hours for that call. After he got sex, he bacame less and less intereested but never left completely. This scenario repeated itself over and over again and it was very exhausting for me. Whenever I found courage to get rid of him he found a way to lure me back and reignite my hope. It was a psychological warfare. Then it turned out he was simultaneously dating another woman and from what I heard it was "more serious" than with me.
I was heartbroken and eventually found courage and dumped him. About a year passed and he was back. I even believed he was the one! But I was a year older and a little more experienced. It was a completely new situation but it was true. Not only see but more importantly, perceive and feel. Now he is a part of your fantasy.
I think it would help you to see and as I said, to FEEL the real him - but I am not able to suggest how to achieve that - and in my opinion he himself would turn you off. I wish you could get out of this state of mind as soon as possible and freely get on with your life. Thank you my Dear mirror!!!
I so much appreciate that you took time to take care of my case. For this I was wondering if I can initiate the contact to for example go for a coffee together for him to meet my sister she will come to visit me next week. Mirror would that be too much and out of question or is permissible? He said that I can call him when I want or feel lonely. Ahh also forgot to tell you. We made pictures together and he asked me to send them by e-mail. I did not know how to react to this so ignored this part and I only said I wish you get better soon.
After this he did not write anything. My sms was the last. Was my reaction ok or I could make it better? I have last question mirror. Do you think that I could scare him away with this statement? Dear Mirror, I recently met a guy online, after a week of chatting we decided to meet at a local coffeeshop.
The date went well, he talked very openly and seemed genuinely interested in me. He was goofy and sweet and at times playfully banged his head on the table when he thought he said something wrong.
He hugged me when we parted. Shortly afterwards I get two texts. Next day we get snow and he texted me. I told him i rented a bunch of movies and he offers to come over, but of course its too soon so I said thats ok I watch them by myself. I have now not heard from him in a week! Im considering reaching out him, cuz its really bothering me! She seems completely oblivious.
He could have just left his profile up and not login again. Seems silly to take down his profile because of me, when he could continue to get attention from other women on there. Perhaps he has a I hate the lyrics, but it made me laugh at the same time. But the sweet ones who say the right things like Libra Guy are the absolute worst, because you WANT to believe in their words Anonymous Thank you so much for sharing your story with me.
I relate to the emotional rollercoaster that comes along with a guy who does the push and pull. The Libra Guy tugged at my emotions for months and it made it extremely hard to detach. There was always a little bit of hope and progress that would keep me hanging on. You being able to share from a place of experience really encourages me.
Thanks again for the supportive words. Because in his mind, he was convinced that you were there - to spy on him, LOL. Insecure guys think everything is about them. Anonymous, I think his silence is telling you all you need to know. Dear Mirrow, We miss you here so much!! Please come and help. Hope to hear from you soon Sonia. Statements such as that are many times, erroneously interpreted by men as "rejection.
Just a quick post to say thank you for your typically amazing advice Mirror. I can just relax, and make men prove their worth to me! Dear Mirror, I really enjoy reading your blog, so thank you. Since we are on the subject of online dating, I would love to know your opinion on my last date experience. I met this guy online two weeks ago.
His profile was nice, based on his three pictures he looked OK. So we exchanged a few emails and decided to meet last Tuesday 3 or 4 days before the actual date. I had no expectations and was pleasantly surprised, first by his look much better than in his photos , then by his personality. We had a great time talking and laughing about anything and everything.
He repeated a few times how much he enjoyed our conversation and that he would really like to see me again. When we were outside he asked for my. I told him that I would love to see him again as well. So today is Monday, almost a week since our date and I did not hear back from him.
I did not go to his profile and obviously not going to contact him. So, I am not overly upset as he is not the first or the last who disappeared although I liked him more than others , but am definitely curious why after being so exited and asking for my and another date…he is gone… and does almost a week of silence mean he is gone for good?
Mirror Yep, Libra Guy will probably be back on the dating site if they hit a rough patch at some point. One guy - has started to grow on me will call him Capricorn Guy. He showed interest in me last summer when I was visiting California and he was there for an internship at a law firm ugh, yes, another lawyer lol , but I was too lazy to respond to his long message. A month ago, I was using this quickmatch feature and saw Capricorn Guy in the queue I got an instant automated message saying we were a mutual match.
The day after, he initiated a message and we started talking. About a week ago, before I took down my profile, I told him someone was bothering me and that I had to switch to a new profile.
I gave him my username, and poofed. He seems like a good guy also a computer nerd - love those! He was raised by a single mother, so he has a lot of respect for strong, independent women. But if we girls mirror that behavior and withdraw as well, how will the guy be satisfied that we are indeed interested in them? In other words, do we keep playing it cool and not budge and not even give any sign that we think their behavior is disappointing whuch after all, it is?
I was contacted by a man who bears a striking resemblance to my Disappearer - Aries, divorced, two kids. He sent me his number in just his second email. He said he finds the emailing thing a bit frustrating sometimes, which I can understand.
Since then, he has used it to contact me twice to: I guess that kind of thing must impress other women! Dear MOA, this is still my fav article on your blog However, I want to ask some things about the early stages of online communication. Firstly, sometimes when I first accept a contact request I will leave a brief msg saying Hi thanks for request my name is.. Then they may leave a similar brief msg the next day. Then when we are both online at the same time for the first time, the man does nothing, just sits there How many nights should I wait till he talks?
Hmm would you please expand on this. What questions should I be asking? What am I truly seeking? Im not talking how many kids do you have and what job do you do Im a bit in the dark here..
You see, this is another "filter" stage. What I would do here is simply accept the request and not send the "hi, my name is" message. Accepting the request is enough of a green light for a man to proceed as the man in the situation - i. So you accept and then you let him proceed with taking the lead role.
Accept and move on about your business. But an example would be something like this. You start with a lead in question such as, "Do you enjoy being in a relationship?
Or do you find that you value your independence more? If he answers that he likes his independence, then you know that: If he answers firmly and immediately that he enjoys the state of a relationship, then you: And then you take it a step further with a question like, "What do you miss about being in a relationship.
And you continue to do this in a roundabout way, using each question as an attempt to validate his initial response. They all have to line up in order for you to truly receive your confirmation about his character. If he moves freely and smoothly through consistent responses that back up his initial response, then you can be a bit more reassured of his truthfulness. And even if they do pull off consistent answers, their lies will show in their body language and immediate behavior following their answers given.
You are slowly squeezing them into the conversation as "small talk" and nothing more. You ask one, then you sit silent and let him talk for a bit. Then you talk about the weather or something LOL, then you sneak in another one, "You had said earlier that you enjoy being in a relationship. What do you miss most? I literally stumbled across your blog and absolutely love it.
You make this single gal not feel so crazy and alone in the dating world! I have even shared your blog with several of my single girlfriends. When the situation is reversed, it generally amounts to no more than a 3 month brief affair of sorts, or worse a one night stand and then the man vanishes into thin air.
MOA- I "met" a man online this past week. He asked me for my number so we can talk on the phone. Does the same rules apply? Do I wait a couple of hours to respond to the email?
VirgoPal, Yes, always hang back. Making yourself too available too early and being too eager tends to invite poor treatment from many men. Not all, but many. I am so sick and tired on trying to find a decent man online. If we click and desire a second real date, then and only then does he get my cell number. Any man who does not respect this rule is not someone I would want in my life.
If he is reliable, he will show up for our introductory coffee date: I tell a man online via the site that I will check mail as late as an hour before going to meet up with him. I know life is unpredictable and give him that venue for cancelling on short notice. This policy has proved very handy: How does he react to not getting my cell number?
Nike said Just Do It! I rest my case, Your Honor. Why would you not want to talk to someone verbally before you meet them?
Honestly, its no difference than giving a random man on the street or at the club your number. You usually can tell a lot about a man from their voice and a phone conversation. Hell, they may slip and ask for sex while talking to you. I am wanting to have way more appreciation in my dating life! We started out as great friends, and I kept wondering when he was going to find a nice girl, have a family and move on. Then things kind of changed in our friendship. In fact, we had even sent each other notes, letters, gifts in the mail.
He had been asking me to meet him for a very long time, and I finally agreed. I have small children so I did not feel comfortable meeting at my home. I wanted a chance to actually see him.
I was going to visit my father for the weekend, and decided to join my friend for dinner on the way. Yes, the inevitable happened.
I slept with him that first meeting. I cannot believe I did that! I see him regularly but we do not have sex every time. We talk every single day, mostly about his work, my home life, both our future goals. He has helped me, I have helped him. We go shopping and rides along the coast. I have met his family. However, we have never really been out on a date. My last birthday, he was busy. He called me several times, but no gift, no visit, no nothing special.
Suggestions on how to not be a jerk, but also on how to get him to pursue me more? And in this case, it started out too easy for him. And then the inevitable happens when that takes place - the woman ultimately becomes disappointed and feels somewhat neglected.
If your birthday was no big deal to him, then his should be no big deal to you. You only do for him regarding the birthday - what he has done for you regarding yours. And if that amounts to nothing, then so be it. You never give more than you get. And if you want him to pursue you more, then you need to pull back.
You need to cease initiating communication and you need to become somewhat scarce. What an excellent article. Dont think you can change it later. I recently gave my number to someone I met online, chat site. He is intelligent, humorous, tongue in cheek, and somewhat arrogant. I am usually excellent in the screening process and rarely give out my phone number. I considered calling him but decided against it.
I can simply tell with this one it would not be a good idea. His not calling is causing me to think more about him. If I give out my number, men call. So in a way I find his behaviour rude, and fascinating. I also have a feeling he either will call eventually or we will speak again online. At which point, I am unsure whether to be nonchalant and upbeat, slip into tongue in cheek banter mode or be annoyed actually, that last one is by all accounts a bad idea.
To me, he appears to be a professional dater Careful with this one dear. If a guy waits for 3 dates that shows commitment. If a guy waits for dates, that shows he should probably be committed in a padded room. Otherwise, the only different between the guy that bails after 3 dates vs the guy that waits dates that this Articles with horrible advice like this make me truly and sincerely feel bad for women The fact of the matter is that Read the comment above carefully ladies.
This gent clearly has nary an ounce of respect for women and also feels that their entire value as a human being. For your information sir, women think and view your perspective of women very differently than shallow men like yourself view yourselves. And your entitlement and shallowness also shows through in your opinion that if a guy leaves after sex - the one and only reason for doing so is because - the woman sucks in bed. Like I said, "cartoon character. Because 3 dates, entitlement, arrogance and a misogynistic view of women will clearly not lead to a relationship with a real woman.
The only kind of woman who would tolerate that type of treatment and permit it to lead her into a relationship is an insecure one. You reek of being afflicted with "man child" syndrome and the air of entitlement that swirls around you is putrid: You treat dating like a sport and you also view it as "predator vs. Go back to the land of "pick up artists" and enjoy slumming it dude.
Your realm is the dating ghetto, a world where sex with insecure women as a hobby is hailed. We all know the recipe for a pick up artist: One dose of ignorance One cup of entitlement Two cups of apathy A teaspoon of bullshit Mix with a weak, insecure women in a large bowl.
Be rude and let simmer on the second date. Reappear and watch the women go to great lengths to gain your withheld approval. Congratulations, you just got laid. Whoopdiedo - anyone on the planet can get laid. Oh wait, I correct that. Anyone on the planet can get laid EXCEPT pick up artists - they actually need to STUDY the topic in order to achieve that goal because their skills as men and as human beings offer them so very little to accomplish that with.
As you can see from his comment above, no mention of real bonding, only cheap anonymous sex with a virtual stranger. Their tactics and beliefs get them laid, but those tactics and beliefs will NEVER lead them towards a genuine relationship with a real woman - a creature of which they do not value and have very little respect for, as you can see. They are the bottom feeders of the dating world. Steer clear of men who speak of women with such little value ladies.
PUA, Oh, I almost forgot! A VERY big thank you for proving me right on something that I state here on this site repeatedly to women: A genuinely interested man pursues a woman.
A half interested man or a player simply seeking free and easy sex makes a few lame attempts - and then moves on to easier prey. Thank you for proving me right, LOL ;- His suggestions will lead you to sex ladies.
Mine will lead you to a relationship. The first is the issue of your labeling the advice given here as horrible and how you feel bad for women. I suggest you do two things, firstly look through the comments of thanks towards the owner of this blog from women in need who have had their lives made better via the help here. I am neither desperate nor am I a loser. I find your attitude towards this disgusting. What are you entitled to here? What makes you think you deserve sex from a women after even the 10th or th date..
You attitude says that and guess what.. You most likely by with insecure women and you probably prey on them. What you advocate here is emotional manipulation for your own sexual gain. Waiting 3 dates does not show commitment it shows a man with a plan for sleeping with women. I know loads of guys that act like you and guess what.. Putting in effort or time? Well the woman you get is worth everything compared to any of that.
Do yourself a favor and let someone else who can her worth take over. Maybe dating is not the thing for you? A secure woman will on occasion do this kind of thing and go out for sex. Listen to what MOA says and read this guys comment it says it all. A man who leaves after sex is a player and selfish man focused on his own needs.
In my experience any man that likes you genuinely will want to grow with you in this area. Bedroom skills are not something to worry about, filtering out guys like this is. That is why you need to listen to MOA. Men like this are on the increase it seems. So they try to manipulate it out of you. Take in what he said and remember it so you can learn to notice it and filter it. Try a "science experiment" just to see how it turns out: The next woman you are attracted to, think of HER before yourself.
Keep that raging peanut in your pants under control, and listen to her. Look at her not as a means to an end -- but rather as a woman with a mind and a heart and dreams who is willing to work for them. Artists create, not destroy. Artists find the beauty in things and try to add their own creativity to make it stronger. Artists make beautiful works where someone else could not see it.
This guy is not an artist. Hey Stinky Shit, How do you like us now? Peter, I love you! StinkyShit needs more ass-kicking by a real Man! Again, he exhibits no talk of real bonding, only that of getting laid. As well, his idea of what a "man" is, is seriously skewed. Honestly, he sounds like the perfect candidate for a hooker. Two entirely different things. Which is why they use the quick "get in, get out" method of a 3 date rule.
And this man is seriously confused. And also as Peter has stated and as you, yourself have picked up on here as well - men like this stink in the sac. Truly, they are totally crappy lovers. Everyone know that a true mac of a man aims to deliver in the bedroom - he thinks about the woman, not about himself. And when this big event of "nothing" happens on the 3rd date and the woman disappears - these guys are so insecure that they claim it was THEM who disappeared.
And THAT, ladies, is why a PUA uses the 3 date rule - because they KNOW no woman in her right mind is going to think that what little they have to offer a woman - is worth any more of her time than 3 dates. And Peter is also correct in that, many times, a strong woman will use a man like this. Again, seen it myself. When a player like that offers himself up on the 3rd date, sometimes a strong woman is like, "Eh, why not. Just an update on my egocentric, athletic Aries. After keeping me abreast of his exercise regime, about three weeks ago he finally asked if I would like to meet up for a drink the following week.
We tentatively agreed on a day, but I never heard anything more from him. It was literally just yesterday that I deleted his number from my phone, because I figured that ship had sailed. Well, who texts me this morning? So, what approach now? Ignore, or wait a while and then respond? Hi Mirror, I am currently talking to a guy that I have met online and I do not know whether I should date other people or not. I really like him.
We have been talking on the phone for the past two months and have been on four dates for the past month. We have even kissed a couple of times and he always gives me compliments. Of course, no sex as yet: He is also very respectful and a gentleman. However, I do not know whether I should ask him if he is ready for a commitment or wait Why would a woman take the lead role, that of a man, in the relationship? When a woman takes the lead like that, she begins to exhibit masculine energy leading.
Men are not attracted to masculine energy, they are attracted to feminine energy submissive. If you pursue a man, take the lead role his role and pressure him When a woman takes the lead, it removes all the fun for the man from dating her Men love competition, they love sport, they love a challenge and they like to "win" things.
As a result, the man needs to ask for the commitment. Be a challenge, be mysterious, be fun and be yourself. Give him plenty of time and space to decide what he wants here Nicole, Oh and by the way, yes.. You have made no commitments to him, you have no obligation to him and your both Internet dating.
And you should be dating other men as well. Hi Mirror, Oh, how I wish I had come across your dating advice earlier! I started communicating with a man he initiated contact who so far seems to be a real sweetheart. After emails, he gave me his number and work schedule telling me that if I ever wanted to text or chat, feel free.
I gave him my number in return. My mistake is that I texted him first BUT having made that flub with the contact, is it possible for me to salvage the situation and put the ball back in his court so to speak?
The only way a woman can know if a man is genuinely interested in her or not is to see if HE pursues HER. So cease initiating and see if he steps forward.
In the meantime, you might be interested in reading this piece, written by a man: Hi Mirror and everyone! I guess this is true NC huh? I waited a couple days to reply, his entire message was long compared to others. I agree with his philosophy and am trying to live that way too - putting myself out there and not having any fear, going with the flow no pressure and being open to what may come my way! He is 51 years old and much older than me but we are Okay with our age gap. He told me he is looking for a woman to marry and have a family.
He left me his email adress and told me to check his profile and if I was intrested I could give him my email adress. I know I made a mistake At first we, never used to talk much as he always told me he was busy and at times tired and told me he wanted a lady who can understand him.
Anonymous July 29, 6: As well, I find it extremely hard to believe that a man wants to start a family at 51 years of age. Gentlemen do NOT send nude photos of themselves dear - players do. Be very careful here. Hi I recently met two men online around the same time. After a few online conversations we exchanged numbers.
With one we had a few phone conversations he invited me to his place I told him No thanks he got upset. The other we talked a few times and texts each other often nothing to much more. Wich it was weird because he was always sweet in his texts.. And he said he was extremely tired he had to work that day which it was a Saturday Hi mirror,your advice is really great! I met up with this guy online and we had a nice chat I gave out mine first I feel that he should call first cause am very intrested in him I myt end up loosing him..
What can I do to make him stay without looking desparate? My friend says that nowadays,its ok for girls to make the first move,otherwise I stand a big chance to loose him. Anonymous August 8, 5: Sure, they may even date you for a month or two. Because they were only half interested to begin with.
You pushed it along, so they figured, "Okay why not" - they got laid, and then they moved on, seeking an individual that they are genuinely interested in. But think about it, how many of the situations last more than months? So if you want to hookup with a guy, then pursue him. But if you want a real, meaningful, genuine relationship with a man - let him be the man and take the lead.
I do not know why women panic at the thought of a man "getting away. Following the path to fear will never lead you to success dear. The only way a woman can know if a man is genuinely interested - is to see if he pursues her. Consider the advice from this man below, advising women NOT to pursue men: NM Babe, he sounds like a scammer.
You can google "Romance scam" and you will understand more. There are many scammers on online dating sites. If you fallow this advice your wasting your time being on one of these sites. The thing that sticks most in my mind as being very bad advice is the point about never contact first? Your getting paid to keep the girls single and on the site right? Read profiles and contact guys who you find interesting.
And send him a text. Every girl wants to be chased. Entertaining the idea that women should answer every guy that contacts them on a dating site AND text them as well. First of all, do you have any idea, any idea at all. An experiment on Match.
Are you seriously suggesting that women should put themselves at risk by providing their personal telephone number to dozens of men and text them all, waste hours upon hours of their personal time communicating with these men and portray themselves as extremely desperate by chasing around 69 men - every single day?
Hi, Mirror Thanks for the article. Women should not post pictures of their children on dating sites. I am on Match.
Dating is a scary thing, but dating online is scarier and discouraging. I became so discourage that I even lowered my standards as far as the "looks" department, and I paid the price. Funny how people think you might change your mind when you see them in person. This man looked nothing like his picture. Out of courtesy, I talked to him for 10 mins about the weather and told him I had to pick my child up. This person was x worst than Booger on Revenge of the Nerds.
After my experience with him, I learned to request for more than 1 picture. After 5 months on Match. I might be wrong. What do you think? There are times I fear I will grow old alone, but I realized that I rather be lonely and happy and hopefully, when I am not looking, Prince Charming will come my way. Anonymous August 12, 5: One word, I believe, is the culprit - narcissistic. Online dating sites provide narcissistic individuals the perfect environment to receive attention, adoration, ego inflation, entertainment i.
In otherwords, sites like that draw narcissistic individuals to them in droves. Which is why women need to be hyper vigilant about placing barriers and filters in place, to properly "vet" someone before proceeding. In the movie, "Under the Tuscan Sun," one of the strong female characters in the movie said to the lead female character something along the lines of: When I was a child, I used to chase lightening bugs.
One day, I just gave up. And I laid down in the grass and fell asleep. When I woke up, I was covered in lady bugs. They were crawling all over me. And there you have it dear: Hello Mirror, I posted in the "platonic" section of a social site recently, to see if anyone could relate to having a sports injury and I was a bit curious about the type of guys on there.
In his first message, I felt it might be red flag that he told me I could text him he must be a numbers game guy! Plus he offered me advice on recovery, and was very positive, so I decided to reply. He shared his story about going through multiple surgeries and how it was tough going through recovery. It genuinely touched me, and I said it was nice talking to someone who related to what I was feeling.
As emails go on, he started saying Just said his story made an impact on me, and I looked forward to a future with more travelling, good food, and surprises. He then replied with something that made me go HUH: He barely knows me. Do I treat him like I met him off a dating site?
What do you think, mirror? Thanks for your insight! And that if not travel maybe him and I could adventure on a staycation I mentioned that I may go on a staycation if my injury prevents me from going abroad. He still does not know what I look like, but wants to meet up. He did say to feel free to say no, but I still feel pressured. Why is he so eager? As a result, you need to do your homework here with him. You need to get to know him MUCH better first.
Anonymous August 13, A man that is genuinely interested will be more than happy to pick up the phone and call you at your invitation and move at your pace dear: Goodmorning, I sent him the text like you recommended this morning, he sent one right back asking who I was, I sent one back with just my name, he sent another with a smiley face saying Goodmorning, what is that?
I completely forgot about this piece! Glad I remembered, I needed a few reminders: I went over his message again a few times, read my previous one to him. Then because we were conversing about our schedules, I had said things were so busy right now, should settle down a bit soon.
He might have jumped the gun. Anyway, made a decision - nothing is happening this weekend with him. I am looking forward to meeting you though at some point and talking to you. And that feels good! Thank you so much Mirror for your thoughts about the 23 year old guy.
You always give me this feeling like the calm eye in a storm. I was feeling all over the place - lots of emotions. But no expectations, guys like him will probably take him many more years to learn if it ever happens, LOL.
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Took me years and years and years to get over him. Fast forward 12 years. I am on a dating website. He contacts me and asks to meet up. I am over the moon. He never meets me and I presume he has got cold feet.
We meet and he says I was one of the great loves of his life, how he threw away something good. He wants to take me out to dinner, show me his big house. He hugged me tightly at the end of the night and I think he tried to kiss me on the lips.
I turned my head away thinking not so fast. Maybe on the next date. I regret that now because I feel I must have given him the wrong impression.
Because he never asked to meet up again and there were just a series of mundane texts. A few months after that he suggested again to which I agreed. But then he would disappear off for a couple of weeks and then send me a text about the weather or work. No mention of meeting. This happened on quite a few occasions. Would ask to meet up but then never follow it up. This went on for a year I am ashamed to say. He met up with me again after a year and I thought we got on really well.
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